Responsibilities, Associated to Groom during the Wedding

Wedding is the most important part of everyone’s life. This bond of love and respect is the most beautiful relationship between two people.Wedding cards are the most special bond which everyone have. There are lots of things which one should have to prepare in a wedding. There are lots of thing which a couple should prepare before wedding like wedding theme , wedding cards, wedding venue etc. A couple needs lots of preparation on their wedding day.Although bride and groom needs to do lots of preparation but a groom needs special kind of preparation for wedding.

Wedding comes with huge planning and lots of responsibility. Being the counterpart of a relationship its bride & groom’s duty to take care of it. Planning responsibility of wedding shouldn’t be on the entire bride’s shoulder. There are plenty of things for the groom to do from the announcement of engagement to the wedding day like designing the wedding card.  You must be thinking, the bridal party would take care of most of the things but the groom must realize his duty that he should fulfilled with tasks during the time leading up to the wedding day. The handsome groom’s get ready to know what your bride wants to let you know. There are number of tasks which are associated to the groom.


No doubt, the bride will have a list of things to offer the groom. Once you let him know the things and he finds a direction then he will be able to take on the finer details. For example: booking the hotel & flights, analyzing the trek, booking catering services and making dinner reservations, sending invitation cards to some of the guests.

Ordering the wedding cake:

Cake cutting ceremony comes in the list of one of the most prominent wedding tradition. Let the groom choose wedding cake for the ceremony, its ok if your man doesn’t love cake. Ask him to book the cake flavor tasting.  And later both of you can show up to sample all of the delicious flavors and choose the best for your wedding cake ceremony.

Choosing wedding apparels:

Both the bride and groom is the centre of attraction of marriage ceremony. The bride gives 2 to 3 months in selecting and getting ready with her wedding gown. So the groom should also be able to select what he wears, whether he wants to choose formal tux or a more casual look.

Designing & compiling wedding cards:

Wedding invites have a lot of different parts or components like the actual invite, RSPV, response card etc. So allocate the task to the groom so he can stuff all of these cards in the envelope.

Decide the wedding style to reach the venue:

Guys have love and affection to the cars. Your groom must be willing to know how the bridal party gets to and from the wedding. So, allow your man to decide it for you that how you and the rest of the bridal party can come to the wedding in style.

Reserve rooms for outside guests:

Take the responsibility and talk with the hotel and make sure to book a block of rooms for the entire out of town guests to make them feel comfortable and homely.


Talk to the groomsmen and ask them that they should be ready with tuxes & suit fitted on time.




Wedding vows sacred and people try all types of vows these days. Earlier there were some traditional vows which the priest would ask the bride and groom to recite after him, but now the days have changed and everyone looks forward to hear the magical vows written by the bride and the groom. So it is the responsibility of the groom to write the vows down and present the inner feeling of love and compassion and show the world your bond with the bride.

The Gift:

To present a gift is an expression which shows how much you care for the person you are gifting the item to. A gift does not compulsorily mean a diamond necklace or a gold ring. The gift is supposed to be something which is very near and dear to the bride’s heart. It can be a poster of her favorite high school picture or a loving pair of guinea pig. You would come to know if the gift is special when you will see the smile on her face and love in her heart after looking at the gift.

Practicing for the D-Day dance:

If you have planned for a gala after the wedding, and you want to outshine the guests who have come to your wedding, all you have to do is get ready and wear your dancing shoes. A lot of choreographers out there specialize in wedding dance rehearsals. It doesn’t matter if you have two left feet, make sure that you go to the classes daily and reach the rehearsal halls on time along with your bride and rest will be taken care of by the choreographers whom you have hired to teach you how to dance.

Words of gratitude:

Say thanks to your guests for joining you and sharing their priceless time with you. Speak few words of gratitude at the reception. So let your groom worry about it.

These few points are subject to the groom’s authority and associated to him. Except this, he can take her lady for shopping and buy her beautiful gifts. So groom should take care of these things during the wedding planning.

These are the points where every groom may make a mistake and would love to be in a place where he can dodge all the possible unwilling outcomes of the wedding. So, grab hold of your future wife, and jump into the sea of amazing unknown tides waiting for you in the new world of as a wedded couple.

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